Self-Esteem Reset Workbook

Self-Compassion vs. Self-Esteem It’s easy to confuse self-compassion with self-esteem, but they are not the same. Self-esteem is often linked to external achievements or validation, while self compassion is not dependent on success or failure. While self-esteem can fluctuate based on performance or others’ opinions, self-compassion remains constant because it’s rooted in how you treat yourself, regardless of your circumstances. Self-compassion is especially important during moments of failure or challenge, when self-esteem may be at its lowest. In those moments, self compassion can provide a nurturing source of strength and resilience that builds up your self-worth from within

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Self-Esteem

Self-Compassion

Based on how much value you place on yourself.

Treating yourself with kindness, especially in hard times.

Often comes from external achievements or how others see you.

Comes from within, recognizing your shared humanity.

Focuses on feeling good about yourself.

Focuses on being kind to yourself, no matter what.

Linked to success or failure; drops during failure.

Steady in both success and failure.

Accepts common human struggles without comparison.

Involves comparing yourself to others.

Can create anxiety when self-worth is challenged.

Reduces stress by normalizing imperfections.

More stable, not dependent on external factors.

Fluctuates with circumstances.

May involve harsh self-criticism.

Uses gentle, forgiving self-talk.

Accepts imperfection and promotes growth.

Increases pressure to be perfect.

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