Self-Love Manual

What you see in others is a reflection of what you have within yourself but do not want to deal with. As a result, when somebody bothers you, it is easier to project your own failings onto them and criticise. As per German author Hermann Hesse: “If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us” Again, this is reflected in the law of attraction. When we judge or condemn others, we are criticizing things we are unable to deal with ourselves. The Christian bible also reflects these teachings: “You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgement on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgement do the same things” (Romans 2:1)

“Do not judge, or you too shall be judged” (Matthew 7:1)